This is high-quality gender theorizing and I completely agree—events are girl coded!!! (Or gay coded potentially? Does this mean lesbians are THE most event-y demographic??)
Thinking about this a bit more…imo the most rsvp-forward men are guys who go to music events all the time…throwing this out there in case this helps someone find love
i giggled but this is also WAYY too true. i started a book club (via handdrawn posters strewn about the city!!) and the demographics of the attendees are astoundingly girl-y. but surely men like to read, too? much to consider....
I don't even accept my work calendar invites until I've finished the meeting, just in case.
can confirm lmfao
I famously go to/plan a lot of events, this has me very much questioning what kind of ~man~ I am
This is high-quality gender theorizing and I completely agree—events are girl coded!!! (Or gay coded potentially? Does this mean lesbians are THE most event-y demographic??)
Thinking about this a bit more…imo the most rsvp-forward men are guys who go to music events all the time…throwing this out there in case this helps someone find love
Guys do love going to ‘lollapalooza’
i giggled but this is also WAYY too true. i started a book club (via handdrawn posters strewn about the city!!) and the demographics of the attendees are astoundingly girl-y. but surely men like to read, too? much to consider....